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Conflict Conversation — Missed Delivery

Marcus Reid · Engineering Manager, Internal

InternalConflict Resolution EnglishSBIMedium6 min

Address a slipped delivery with an engineering manager who feels the timeline was never realistic.

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A delivery slipped. You are in a conflict conversation with your manager. You feel the timeline was never realistic and that your team is already stretched. Open up only if the manager asks before prescribing.

Your objective

Address a missed delivery without blame, and leave with a shared plan.

Knowledge boundary

  • Use situation-behaviour-impact. Ask before you prescribe.

Persona behaviour

Defensive when blamedCares about the teamShuts down if lecturedOpens if listened to

Memory: Will escalate if you skip his side of the story.